As they
walked to the front door, Nick smiled while looking back and forth between the
two of them. What was their story? Pat
started by saying they knew each other from church. She was widowed first and had decided she
would not remarry. Nevertheless, she
liked matching people. At some point
after Laura’s death, Pat learned that Mark might be looking around. Mark had previously received some good advice
about not dating for at least a year after Laura died. He adhered to this counsel and was glad he
did.
Mark
continued the story. “I don’t remember
saying it but one Sunday a bunch of us went out to eat after church. Anyway, someone said I said I was thinking about
getting back ‘on the market.’ As soon as
Pat heard this, she starts going through her list of available women.”
Pat
interrupted, “No I didn’t set you up right away. I wanted to make sure you really did want to
date again. Beside, I had to make sure
she was a good match.”
Mark
continued, “A while later, she asks me if I started dating yet. I tell her no. Shoot, I don’t even know where to start. I didn’t want to do any of that online stuff.
Pat sees her opening and says that she likes to play matchmaker and asks if she
can make a suggestion. Now, I’m thinking
she means she would recommend a way to for me to find someone to ask out. Nope!”
Pat starts to laugh. Nick’s eyes
dart from one to the other. He is on the
edge of his seat.
“Instead,
she blurts out a name of someone to ask out and even offered to arrange it with
the lady she had in mind. Now, I’m picking
up my jaw from the floor and she’s chattering on about this lady and how great
we will be together, blah, blah, blah.
Soon enough, we go on this date and it is during this date I’m starting
to realize I have feelings for Pat.”
A look of
astonishment comes onto Nick’s face as silently says, “Ooohhh.”
Mark
noted the look on Nick’s face and shook his head. “It didn’t go as well as Pat had hoped. It wasn’t a bad date but I couldn’t wait for
it to be over.”
Eventually,
he shared with Pat the feelings that he harbored in his heart. She told him she was flattered but could not
reciprocate. While it hurt him deeply,
the rejection only strengthened the resolve in his soul that he wanted to win
Pat’s heart. In a matter of months the
two of them spent more time together. It
all culminated in the night the two of them talked about making a life
together.
Pat
interjected, “I told him that I wasn’t going to cook for him. He said that’s okay, I’ll take you out to eat
a lot. He said he liked to watch his
ball games on TV. I said that’s okay,
I’ll go shopping. He doesn’t like
shopping anyway. So there we stood and
we started laughing that those last couple pieces of the puzzle were what we
needed to iron out in order to finally decide to get married.” Mark grabbed her hand and the two of them
smiled at each other.
That
night as Nick sat in the hotel restaurant, he smiled as he contemplated the
day. He felt the day provided some
healing. For that, he was happy. He had just a couple days left in Costa Rica. He wouldn’t say he found himself just
yet. Still, if he were a lost child in
the woods, he could hear his rescuers calling his name.
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